How Blonde is Blonde Enough?

I’m a natural blonde. But I learned at an early age, apparently I wasn’t blonde enough. I remember I was about six years old when my mom started spraying Sun-In on my hair at the pool in the summer. This went on for years, so when I got older I continued the tradition, because blonde is apparently good. Then I learned that I could use the hair dryer instead of heat from the sun to get the same effect year round. Surprisingly, my hair handled the abuse pretty well. And then one summer I heard about girls mixing lemon juice with hydrogen peroxide to make their hair even MORE blonde. Well, this I had to try. I forget what ratio I used (lemon juice to peroxide) but it probably didn’t matter much. I dumped the mixture on my head and blasted it with a hair dryer. It worked…but turned my soft hair to straw. That was the last time I experimented with peroxide.

Late into my college years, I really started getting into herbs. I was mixing potpourris, cooking herbs and making herbal wreaths. I loved reading about the plants and their properties. There must be a mad scientist inside of me, because I once again started experimenting. After the development of our Herbal Aftershave, Tropical Lip Balm, Deodorant Powder and a few other products that have since been discontinued, I turned my attention back to hair. I knew infusions of lemon, chamomile and calendula could give me that oh-so-coveted “blonder” look. So I made a tea. And poured it on my hair and went out into the sun. It worked. But this time, my hair felt (and smelled) fabulous. I had to share this creation with everyone else who didn’t feel blonde enough.

I researched and created another blend for folks with dark hair. Soon I packaged my whole herbs into large tea bags which were sold in pretty printed envelopes. I kept this product around for a while, but discontinued it about four years ago as sales were sluggish. Maybe people didn’t want to bother making a tea for their hair. Or maybe it was easier to just use a hair dye.

I still think the concept of hair herbs is a cool one. If you want to try it, mix together the following:

Blonde: lemon peel, chamomile, calendula

Brunette: rosemary, sage, black tea, cloves, black walnut shells

Red: hibiscus, red rose petals, rose hips, red clover

Make a strong tea with your herbs, leaving them in the water for up to 30 minutes. After shampooing, apply your herbal rinse to hair. Comb through. The more often you use the tea, the more dramatic the results.

You can add other herbs which will benefit the condition of your hair too. If your hair is dry, try adding marshmallow root, elderflower, lavender or nettle. For oily hair, add yarrow, witch hazel bark, watercress, strawberry leaf, lemon balm or horsetail. Want your hair to have more body? Try oat straw, dandelion, burdock root and apple cider vinegar.

Herbal hair rinses are easy, beneficial, and fun to mix and feel as luxurious as a spa treatment. As for the blonde thing, no matter how stupid I think it is, part of it is still engrained in me. I wish it wasn’t. Hair color doesn’t determine how pretty or attractive you are. That comes from the inside.